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Mar 13 2010

梁智强VS老虎伍兹记者会

当涉及梁智强婚外情事件“嫩草”越来越多时，我的第一反应就是：简直是新加坡版老虎伍兹。

所以当得到要采访梁智强记者会的任务时，我回家做的其中一个“功课”便是，上网观看老虎伍兹的记者会片段。

梁智强记者会开始前，就有人（因该是经纪人）出面说明，记者会不接受媒体提问。第一反应：不会吧，真以为自己是老虎伍兹？

但梁智强的记者会，还真是出乎意料。出乎意料的短，出乎意料的没交代，出乎意料的、戏剧性的收场。导演的记者会，就得以戏剧方式结束吧。

老虎伍兹的记者会，就像某个政治人物出来演讲一般。一板一眼，根据事先准备好的稿照着念。没有令人大跌眼镜的宣言，没有戏剧性的转折，就这么平静的过去了。但至少，他有让事情告一段落的功效。一人做事一人当，独自面对媒体，正面承认自己出轨；向所有人，尤其家人道歉；表示忏悔也示出自己悔改的决心；也向大家郑重声明太太从未施予暴力。虽然认为他应该更早一些出来面对各界，但至少最终还是做了比较完整的交代。

相比之下，梁智强虽在事情爆发后的第六天就召开记者会，但记者会后，留下的疑问依就那么多。自己犯的错，但在整起事件中最痛苦的，还是他太太。既然不懂得面对媒体，为什么还要让她出面呢？一直强调太太是自愿随他出席记者会，但如果他真的爱她，想保护她，就不会让她面对这样的场面。追根究底，不偷吃，就不会有今天的局面。而记者会上说的话，似乎还要把他们所承受的痛苦，归咎于媒体。的确，一些小报媒体采访的方式或许比较激进，但我觉得比起其他一些国家的媒体记者，我国的媒体已经非常收敛了。落下的眼泪，是忏悔的眼泪、是后悔的眼泪、是痛苦的眼泪还是鳄鱼泪？“请给我们一次机会”是什么意思？要谁给你们机会，给什么样的机会，而又为什么是“我们”呢？不就是一个人的错，造成如今的局面吗？

对于记者会的场面，其实我自己也吓了一跳。到场看到这么多记者，身为记者的我都有点惊愕。更何况是梁智强的太太，面对十几二十架相机在面前拼命按快门，在场的50多名记者锐利的眼神，加上各界的压力，更要承受那种被挚爱的人背叛的痛。我想谁都会撑不住而倒下吧。

说真的，我还在想他们召开记者会的意图。是要让各界知道你们有多惨吗？真希望因为这个记者会，事情就能告一段落吗？原本以为可以安抚各界、做个交代的记者会，却只挑起大家更多不满的情绪。

追踪梁智强新闻，似乎已经成了全民运动，连部长也出来发言，连国会都拿来讨论。街头巷尾，各大媒体，讨论的、炮轰的，都是这回事。还有多少嫩草会站出来？我不知道。事情是否真的告一段落？我不晓得。反正大家还是会把这当成是最精彩的戏码，继续追踪。

人生如戏，戏如人生。

～林卉

3 responses so far

3 Responses to “梁智强VS老虎伍兹记者会”

1. # Michael Ohon 13 Mar 2010 at 6:06 am

   Hello Lim Hui

   Good morning

   Jack Neo VS Tiger Woods ?

   I Personally feel that this guy
   Jack Neo is nobody compare to this
   The world no 1 golfer@Tiger woods

   Instead our great Jack Neo ? at this point of times
   He was really good for nothing
   The man an idiot with no guts, his wife as a shield for him
   Do you agree with me Lim Hui ?

   This comedian Jack Neo is
   deserve to be punished, in singapore can
   only by his family members or his disciples

   Law and order are mandatory to all
   countries
   They are the tools to deter and punish
   perpetrators

   I salute this poor lady mrs irene neo
   She is an extraordinally person
   Nobody can shake her

   To me, in this case, a family as a whole
   I share the same thought as her too
   How about you Lim Hui ?
   Unless our joker Jack Neo
   is a useless man . . .

   The question now is for those victims ? i dont understand
   Ms Lim Hui, look, You are also a girl
   Why they are still willing to had affair with this joker ?
   After all they are well and mature enough, knowing
   he is a family man yet for sure
   Will be an endless love
   having a good time now, suffer later

   Remember, Two wrongs never made a right
   Therefore you girls are ought to open your big eyes
   open your ears as well, in order to protect yourself
   You know safe is better than sorry
   The real Mr Right is rather hard to come by nowadays
   Am i right Lim Hui ?

   More importantly
   For the good of our society, never just because
   of marriage and marriaged ? Unless you have
   had an ideal life companion
   That’s one of a reason im still remain single
   haha ha . . .

   Kind Regards

   Michael Oh
   M – 9 1719919
   http://www.vivalitho.com
   Thank you

2. # 冠希on 13 Mar 2010 at 6:58 am

   大家都被这错觉给蒙蔽了。。为什么每个人都同情梁太太呢？那些被梁智强玩弄的女人真的一点也不可怜吗？

   爱一个家庭，爱一个人是这样爱，这样包容的吗？对他在外的一举一动，她真的如梁智强所说的是一年前才知道的吗？这是我们都一直跟着梁智强的剧本在走的错像。

   以上的仁兄，文章是写的不错，但是却是愚昧的。康女士爱这个人吗？康女士爱这个家吗？我想她爱较多的是她的身份，她现在所拥有的一切吧！摆出一副弱者的状态，就能博得这些愚昧的大男人的同情，何不呢？

   正面的教育，是该给这些女人重重的打击。自家的男人要管好，不要等事情发生后，才来装一副弱女子姿态来博同情，你和你老公梁智强一样恶心！

3. # Michael Ohon 15 Mar 2010 at 6:30 am

   Hello Mr ”Kuan-Sit”

   Greetings

   Good day to you
   Hope everything goes well with you

   I would like to thank you for condamnable me
   being naive ? Mr “Kuan-Sit”

   Say is easier than done
   At most of the cases
   Men are an idiots and trouble makers
   I salute you, perhaps
   Probably you are the only holy man exist

   Your may consult your life companion or
   your beloved mother for more opinions

   Well I believe this Mrs Irene neo
   would have choose to leave this Joker
   if is not because of thier four teenagers kids
   Moveover she is no more young either

   Mr “Kuan-Sit”
   You are talking about for her status ?
   forget it, not a big deal, everthing is still under instalments . . .
   Here is Singapore
   Unlike in Hong Kong, Taiwan, China or Hollywoods
   You better wake up, you are another nuts

   Although i have had almost everything i want
   So what . . . Mr ”Kuan-Sit”

   Give me a ring at any time you free
   I need to learn more things from you guys

   Thank you

   Michael Oh
   M – 9 1719919
   http://www.vivalitho.com
   Cheers C U

   Hi Mr ”Kuan-See”" For this Mrs Irene neo
   I believe if is not because of their four teenager kids ?
   She would have choose to leave
   this joker with no other choices

   Mr ”Kuan-See”
   You expect the women to clear the shits
   for any man who flirts and fool around

   I know, you life companion might able to
   tame you for that, wait and see ?
   tiill a day we gone with the lord

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